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So, dear Annie,
It looks like you have a tough decision to make here.
From what you said, it seems like your friend has a lot of jealousy towards you and your happy relationship due to her unsuccessful one she has now.
If you think she has gone too far by trying to cause you to lose your own happiness, and if you feel that this is causing you to lose trust in her, then maybe it’s best to give her some space and time. And if it’s causing you to possibly rethink a perfectly good relationship, then its definitely a good idea to stay with him.
If you value your friendship with this girl, and you feel like she needs a little help, maybe it would be wise to talk to her about it. I mean, If you just leaver her in the dark and not tell her why, then she’ll play the victim and think you left her for your boyfriend. You have to remember that she is your friend, and she is hurting in this situation. Maybe you should talk to her about getting out of her own unsuccessful raltionship. If she finds someone who is good for her, or even leaves the one who isn’t best for her, then maybe the envy in her will dissipate.
I definitely agree that you should do whatever it takes to keep yourself happy, but if this girl was/is a really good friend of yours, than i think maybe you should think about helping her be happy too. c:
Hope this helps!
The BH|LL Team
Zukii and Cabbitt