In my experience, alot of people deal with this. I myself didnt have a true honest friend until 7th grade.
People are odd, they worry about other people and what they think of them instead of making themselves happy. Which means if other people dont befriend certain people, they get avoided. :(
It sucks, I know. But the main thing is having an open personality/mindset, dont brush off others that don’t seem ideal, because then your just denying their possible friendship as others are doing to you.
Some times we accidentally close ourselves off to possible friends on accident, because we have the ideal friend in mind. and we get so focused on that ideal friend that we miss out on all the other cool people trying to connect.
losing friends happens. But trust me, if you have known them for less than a year or if you’ve gone out less than 3 times, they probably weren’t real friends if they just ditched you like that.
YOU DESERVE BETTER!
you dont need people who take take take and leave you with nothing.
leave yourself open, engage in conversations, and trust me, you’ll start making friends. Real friends.
Hope we helped.